Thursday, January 31, 2013

Very Interesting....

There are points in time when we find ourselves in "unjust" circumstances...
(or rather, what we DEEM to be unjust)..
In any case, we generally tip-toe around the issue for awhile, in deep contemplation,
so as not to ruffle any feathers until we've reached some modicum of equitable conclusion...
At which point, we determine how to best remedy the situation....
This is a scenario that EVERYONE finds themselves in from time to time...

Here's the REALLY fascinating thing:
(See if you can wrap your minds around this!)

I have found,,,over and over again....
that there is ANOTHER "Bone of Contention" scenario ...
floating around somewhere in our own, PERSONAL atmosphere....
that is the EXACT, 360 degree counterpart to what we are experiencing now...
That we have ALWAYS, but ALWAYS , been on the "other side of the coin"...

Hence, we have the very keen ability to REMEDY 'said' conflict....
by simply using our organic, EMPATHETIC mechanism...
by putting ourselves DIRECTLY, and of course FIGURATIVELY!,,,
into the other one's shoes for just a moment....

"Become the observer..."
Wise words...





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