here's the thing.....

it is very, very easy to jump to conclusions....
thereby eradicating even the tiniest possibility that something else ENTIRELY is going on.....
we personalize EVERYTHING ad nauseum...
only to find out later, more often than not, that the thing that we perceived as a
PERSONAL BLOW TO THE GUT...
had essentially NOTHING TO DO WITH US WHATSOEVER !!
often times, it is simply too late at this point to backtrack...
so we become entrenched and enslaved by the WRONG position....
feeling embarrassed, ashamed, and enormously regretful....
STUCK IN THE MIRE....
so why not just come clean, my friends ???
i know...i know....
YOU JUST CAN"T.....
but trust me on this...
that primary position ....
the one which you stood by so ardently and 'tom foolishly'...
it will continue to RUIN the possibilities of growth for you......
and will become like a "BACKWARD BADGE OF HONOUR"...
understand ??
so....
before JUMPING TO A FINITE CONCLUSION....
take a moment....
get the facts.....
grow the f*ck up.....